Dolores Derrian

Polyamourous, kinky, sex-positive author promoting an alternative to monogamous, vanilla living, encouraging people to live honestly through curiosity - not throug fear.

When I was 31 I discovered polyamory and BDSM - and my life took an unexpected turn. For the better! I am now able to live honestly through curiosity. I can be myself more fully. 

It has been a roloercoaster of a ride, for sure, but being honest to myself and my husband about my needs and desires has liberated me in so many way, 

I wrote about book about my journey, "Polyamory and BDSM, Discovering Love, Sex, Vulnerability and Radical Honesty" available on Amazon Kindle.  Feel free to take a look! I hope you will enjoy it!

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In the book I talk about sex, lots of it, with both men and women, and I talk about love. There is physical and emotional pain, experimentation and rejection. There are premature ejaculations and squirting. Everything I share are my own personal experiences, you get to see places within me that are dark and very personal, so please go easy on me. I lay here before you, vulnerable and excited, and at the same time quite scared. I am beginning to think that letting you into my mind like this may be a bit crazier than I can actually handle. But I also think that I am ready to take that step, so here goes.

For any of you worrying, there are no handsome, emotionally fucked up billionaires flying around in helicopters. This is real and intimate. It is honest and raw.