On July 16, 1999, John F. Kennedy Jr. boarded a small aircraft with wife Carolyn Bessette and her sister Lauren Bessette, intending to fly from New Jersey to Martha’s Vineyard and then on to Cape Cod for his cousin Rory’s wedding; instead, he crashed into the Atlantic Ocean off the coast of Massachusetts, leaving no survivors. Their loss became another in a series of what some call the “Kennedy curse:” the tendency of members of this family to die prematurely, like President John F. Kennedy, assassinated at age 46, or his brother Robert F. Kennedy, assassinated at age 42. The loss of the young, beautiful couple of JFK Jr. and wife Carolyn only intensified comparisons to his illustrious parents JFK and Jackie O., and their legacy has since taken on the same harrowing blend of glamour and tragedy.
Before meeting JFK Jr., Carolyn Bessette went to Boston University and then worked at Calvin Klein, first as a salesperson and then as a publicist. She began dating her future husband in 1994, moved into his Tribeca apartment in 1995, and quit her job in 1996, marrying Kennedy in a small, secret ceremony in September of that year. Their brief marriage was largely characterized by Carolyn’s often-difficult time adjusting to the media frenzy that now surrounded her day-to-day life, an experience longtime friend Carole Radziwill compared to Meghan Markle joining the royal family in early 2021.
“I love how people say Meghan knew what she was getting into,” Radziwill, who was married to JFK Jr.’s best man, the late Anthony Radziwill, tweeted after watching Meghan and Prince Harry’s bombshell Oprah interview. “People said the same thing about Carolyn Bessette when she married into the Kennedy family. You could never know. Meghan said it right the perception is nothing like the reality.”
Read on for our favorite photos of JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette, a couple taken from us too soon.
A version of this article was originally published in July 2021.
Cartier Reception
John F Kennedy Jr and Carolyn Bessette were both full of joy during the Cartier reception.
George Magazine Awards
We love finding photos of John F Kennedy Jr and Carolyn Bessette Kennedy smiling together.
Municipal Art Society Gala
John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette Kennedy looked like such an It-couple while attending the Municipal Art Society gala!
Whitney Museum
These two remained the social butterflies at the Whitney Museum.
Dinner Out
John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette looked as stylish as ever while out and about on Nov 05, 1997.
Municipal Art Society gala at Grand Central Terminal
Carolyn Bessette Kennedy couldn’t contain her joy when her husband, John F. Kennedy Jr. whispered to her at the Municipal Art Society gala at Grand Central Terminal.
Hilton Hotel
John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette were packing on the PDA at a Hilton Hotel party.
White House Correspondents Dinner
This heartwarming photo of John F. Kennedy Jr and Carolyn Bessette is such an intimate glimpse into their romance
John F. Kennedy Library Foundation Dinner
John F. Kennedy, Jr. and his wife Carolyn Bessette Kennedy had some subtle PDA while at the annual John F. Kennedy Library Foundation dinner in 1999.
Minskoff Theatre
This 1998 photo shows Carolyn and John out for a night at the theater.
2nd Annual ‘George’ Magazine Party
JFK Jr. founded George magazine, a monthly politics-lifestyle outlet, in 1995.
The Municipal Art Society’s Revitalization of Grand Central
Carolyn Bessette at this Grand Central exhibit was probably the closest there’s ever been to a real-life Serena Van Der Woodsen.
Whitney Museum of American Art
Outfits like this helped cement Carolyn’s status as the queen of minimalist style.
Breuer’s Whitney: An Anniversary Exhibition
For the first public appearance since their wedding, the couple attended the 30th anniversary celebration of the Whitney Museum’s Breuer Building.
At the Whitney Museum Gala
John Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy were even captured holding hands during their appearance at the Whitney Museum.
Guggenheim Museum
That tiny purse! Carolyn truly was decades ahead of her time.
Meatpacking District, NYC
JFK Jr. and Carolyn are pictured here in a rare non-event moment, walking down the streets of New York near their Tribeca apartment.
Robin Hood Foundation 10th Anniversary Benefit
In another sleek and simple look, the couple attended a Robin Hood Foundation benefit.
Manhattan
The couple is seen here walking their beloved dog Friday.
Whitney & Warhol Gala
The Whitney’s Whitney & Warhol Gala saw another stunning ensemble from Carolyn.
“Newman’s Own” George Awards
Carolyn and John are seen smiling here at the U.S. Customs House for an awards show.
The Municipal Art Society Ceremony
The NYC couple were a mainstay at Municipal Art Society events.
The Riverkeeper Benefit Dinner
Carolyn’s buttoned-up looks and minimal jewelry always showed off her impeccable taste.
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