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We asked, you shared: Secret sexual fantasies

What do women really want? It’s a question we often ask ourselves — and some of you shared. Get out a cool drink because it’s getting hot in here!

“My partners are pretty GGG (see Dan Savage if you don’t know what that means),” says Rachel S., “so if I want something, one of them will make it happen. I guess I’m just lucky like that. When I do fantasize, I like a lot of struggle play and BDSM (in a safe and sane way, where I make squeaky noises and my partner giggles at me for it). I don’t want that all the time but sometimes. Other times I’ll think of the way one of my partners touches me: He has this way of really enjoying running his hands over my skin and it really turns me on.”

— Rachel S.

“I have a few fantasies. I’d like to have a real MMF. I had one just after college, but it was sweet, tame, no intercourse, just touching, caressing, oral. I want to really experience being with two men, giving and receiving pleasure, being worshiped and making them happy in return. Honestly, though, I love my husband dearly, but I’ve never had an orgasm with him. So my ultimate fantasy is to have great sex regularly!”

— Eva B.

“I’ve always had M-F-M fantasies, and after a particularly adventurous vacation, that was fulfilled (many times!) with my husband and a close friend of ours. So my current favorite fantasy is to have my husband *and* Robert Downey Jr. Unfortunately, the closest I’ve gotten is finding an Ironman toy left in the bed by my toddler. And, no… I have never done anything with the toys! LOL Eww…”

— Desiree S.

“I’ve always been attracted to the fierce machismo of cowboys. Never managed to lasso one though! My fantasy is a rough and wild tumble with my very own cowboy. Whether it’s in his stables or the back of a dive bar, I am sure he’ll show me who is boss!”

Melissa W.

“I travel a ton for work and have always been attracted to the Mile High Club. Couldn’t tell you how those people fit into that small bathroom, but I’d love to find out!”

— Karissa R.

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