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Some people are gifted with a way with words, but other people… not so much. If you’ve ever attempted to write a thoughtful, appropriate Valentine’s Day card only to wind up with a million pieces of paper ripped up at your feet, this one’s for you.
As if finding the perfect Valentine’s Day gift wasn’t hard enough, it can also be a challenge to find a sweet card and come up with a Valentine’s Day message, no matter what stage you’re at in your relationship. Even professional writers might be stumped and end up pulling out their hair figuring out exactly what words to write inside that blank card. You don’t want to go overboard and freak out someone you just started dating with an overly and unexpectedly romantic card; on the other hand, if you’ve been with someone for a long time and they really mean a lot to you, you don’t want to write out a card that might come off as trite. The last thing you want on your romantic Valentine’s Day date is to watch your loved one’s face fall when they open that envelope. The good news is that it’s possible to be romantic — and not cheesy — with a perfect little quote or phrase in a personalized Valentine’s Day card.
Whether you’re casually dating someone, in a long-term relationship, or have been married for decades, we’ve got all the tips you need for what to write in your Valentine’s Day love note. And if you’re intimidated by the entire Valentine’s Day card process, we even rounded up some examples of Valentine’s Day cards, from funny to super romantic, so you can pick one that matches the tone of the note that you’re planning to jot down inside.
The new relationship
Tip: Avoid sexual comments. They may be fun, but they’re best kept out of a card, especially in a new relationship.
You want to express your care for someone you’re still getting to know, without being too serious. Here are a few ideas on what to write:
- I love that you’re my Valentine!
- Happy Valentine’s Day! I can’t wait to see where this goes.
- I was never a fan of this holiday until meeting you, my sweet Valentine.
- I’ve loved getting to know you and spending time with you. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Our favorite quote: “Anyone can catch your eye, but it takes someone special to catch your heart.” — author unknown
Scratch-a-sketch Valentine’s Day Card
This V-Day card is certainly unique, and it gives you the power to write whatever you want. The card is your canvas. You aren’t forced to conform to a super sappy Valentine’s Day card pre-written by someone else, and for the artistic among us, you can even draw pictures or give your ultra-personal card whatever aesthetic decorations your heart desires.
‘Be Mine’ Puppy Card
Ask your Valentine to be yours with this cute illustrated puppy. The card is blank and perfect if your beau has a furry friend.
‘We Matched’ Card
Met your new Valentine on the apps? This sweet, simple, and punny card is a great way to show them you appreciate them and are excited to see where things go next.
The steady boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner
Valentine’s Day could be the perfect time to let your long-term love know just how much they mean to you and how much you’re looking forward to the future. Ideas on what to write in this Valentine’s Day card include:
- The past few Valentine’s Days with you have been wonderful. I’m looking forward to many more!
- You mean everything to me. Happy Valentine’s Day to my one and only.
- “True love stories never have endings.” — Richard Bach
- “We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” — Dr. Seuss
- “When I saw you, I was afraid to meet you. When I met you, I was afraid to kiss you. When I kissed you, I was afraid to love you. Now that I love you, I’m afraid to lose you.” — Rene Yasenek
Our favorite quote: “Grow old with me! The best is yet to be.” — Robert Browning
‘Still Not Sick of You’ Card
Couples have been spending a lot more time together over the last few years, so it’s no small feat if your relationship made it through! Celebrate that in a tongue-in-cheek way with this card.
S’mores Card
Tell your significant other that they love them with this adorable illustrated card from Hallmark. It’s a great choice for partners with a sweet tooth!
Volcano Card
Can you tell we like puns? This volcano-themed card will put a smile on your Valentine’s face. The volcanos even pop off the card to give it a little extra pizzazz.
‘Up’ Carl & Ellie Card
If Carl and Ellie’s heartbreakingly sweet sequence at the beginning of Up still makes your SO get a little teary, this is absolutely the card for them. The words on the front gesture towards the future you’re building together, and the pop-up element is the perfect sweet surprise! (PS: if they love Disney but are more of a Little Mermaid,Aladdin, or Lion King fan, you’ve got plenty of other options!)
The soon-to-be spouse
Getting ready to tie the knot? That makes this a super-special Valentine’s Day, when you’ve committed to each other but haven’t quite officially sealed the deal yet. While you have lots of Valentine’s Day card and message options when you’re engaged, here are a few notes we know we’d love to read:
- Can’t wait to make it official. Happy Valentine’s Day to my fiancé/fiancée!
- Happy Valentine’s Day! Let’s put a ring on it.
- Happy Valentine’s Day to the person I’ll be spending forever with.
- You’re my partner/fiancé/fiancée for now, my spouse/husband/wife soon, and my person forever.
“I Can’t Wait to Marry You” Card
This card really says it all, doesn’t it? While you’ll still want to write a personal note inside (trust us!), this sweet card conveys all the anticipation you’re feeling for your upcoming wedding and makes sure they know just how excited you are to be theirs, officially.
Next Valentine’s Day Card
We know it’s important to live in the moment, but when you know this time next year you’ll be married to your true love, it’s impossible not to peek a little bit into the future and how excited you are for it… right? Clink some champagne glasses with your intended when you give them this sweet, sincere card.
Fiancé Hearts Card
Sometimes one word is all you need. If you’re so excited to call your loved one your “fiancé” (or “fiancée,” which is also an option for this card!), this is the perfectly simple card for you. Now just wait until you can level up to “spouse”!
The life partner
Today’s the day to let your partner know just how much you love and appreciate them, and what your relationship has meant to you over the years. And since you already won them over, you can be as cheesy as you please! Cute quotes and sayings to write on this Valentine’s Day card include:
- “Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite.” — author unknown
- You are the love of my life — always have been, always will be. Happy Valentine’s Day to the person of my dreams.
- I don’t know if I can put into words what you mean to me, but I know that I’ll spend my life trying. I love you! Happy Valentine’s Day.
- “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” — Robert A. Heinlein
- “A hundred hearts would be too few to carry all my love for you.” — author unknown
Our favorite quote: “I’ve fallen in love many times… always with you.” — author unknown
‘You’re the Only One’ Card
For the partner who seems to have everything, get them this tongue-in-cheek card. It’ll remind them that your presence is a present (but you should still get them a present).
‘I’m Keeping You’ Card
Own your feelings this Valentine’s Day and tell the love of your life exactly how much they’ve changed your life with this minimalist card. It’s sweet and genuine without getting too sappy — the perfect combo.
Paper Roses Card
Instead of sending a bouquet of real flowers, save some money and send this beautiful 3D pop-up card. It’ll last longer than flowers anyway, and your partner will love displaying it on the dresser or mantel.
The funny couple
These are the Valentine’s day cards and messages that could work for the couple that loves to make each other laugh, no matter what relationship stage they’re in. Here are a few quotes and messages to make them giggle this V-Day:
- “Without Valentine’s Day, February would be… well, January.” — Jim Gaffigan
- “I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner
- “I don’t understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine’s Day. When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon.” — author unknown
Baby Yoda Card
Get this cute Mandalorian card for the Star Wars fan in your life. Your partner or SO will get a kick out of the punny humor and adorable illustration.
Avocado Card
If your SO loves a cheesy joke, a cringe-y pun, or is simply a big fan of avocados (millennials, we’re looking at you), they’ll appreciate this card, which features a funny play-on-words.
For the ‘Anti-Hero’
This one’s for the Swiftie in your life. If your Valentine loves pop culture references and all things Taylor, grab this cute “Anti-Hero”-themed card!
‘Best Thing on the Internet’ Card
If you met ‘the one’ online, this heartfelt and funny card is a great choice.
A version of this article was originally published in January 2014.
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