The minute we find out we’re expecting a child, we begin making lists of the things he or she will need. From cribs to crayons, diapers to dolls and debutante balls, we start accumulating things and ideas to give them what we think they must have in life, to get ahead in life.
Too often, however, as well-intended as those lists may be, they’re misguided, and we ended up giving our children things they don’t need. In our rush to meet their every need, we miss the mark — and at times do more harm than good.
The things that are truly necessary for children to grow into happy, well-adjusted adults are actually quite simple. Here are 35 of them:
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1. A healthy, well-balanced diet
2. A car seat/booster seat/seat belt every single time they’re in the car
3. Memory-making moments with family
4. To know you’re cheering them on in whatever they do
5. Acknowledgement of a job well done
6. Breakfast each day
7. A good night’s sleep
8. Lessons in good manners
9. Someone to read to them
10. Hugs and kisses
11. To know you love them even when they make mistakes
12. Your time
13. Boundaries and expectations
14. Reassurance that they’re special and unique
15. Time to unwind, time to daydream
16. Lessons in self-care
17. Snuggles when they’re sick
18. Regular checkups with a doctor
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19. Your undivided attention… sometimes
20. Laughter
21. Opportunities to experience the joy of giving
22. Exposure to diversity
23. Lessons in how to lose graciously
24. Age-appropriate independence
25. To hear you say, “I’m sorry”
26. Faith in something or someone
27. Physical activity
28. Fresh air
29. An appreciation for nature
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30. Respect
31. To be celebrated for who they are
32. An education
33. Encouragement to always do their best
34. To see you make mistakes and recover from them with grace
35. Love
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