Build traditions
According to Salena Norman, MSW, post adoption specialist with Family Services of Metro Orlando, developing mutual traditions between the children is important. Either through a common interest or a weekly activity, shared experiences help promote bonding and attachment.
Seek support
Adoption is a complex experience. A family welcoming a new child into their home may benefit from outside support from professionals experienced in adoption and blending families.
Non-profit organizations, such as Center For Family Connections in Cambridge, Massachusetts, aid in counseling, education, support groups, and more for families who are adopting. Check for local resources in your area.
Keep in mind that helping your biological children bond with their new sibling is just as important as the bonding that occurs between the adopted child and his or her new parents. “Keep lines of communication open, and encourage common experiences among your children,” adds Dr. Haltzman. “Acceptance is gradual, and that’s normal. But the rewards of bringing together biological and adopted children can enrich everyone’s lives.” With a little patience and dedication, your family will soon forget what it was like before your adopted child blessed your life!
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For more information on adopting
- Types of adoption: Domestic, international, open and closed
- The costs of adoption: Adoption expenses and financial help
- Adoption: A step-by-step guide
- Celebrity adoptions: Who is adopted and who had adopted
- Lessons learned from celebrity adoptions
- SheKnows adoption message boards
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