While we spent Pride month celebrating LGBTQ+ folx who fought tirelessly to love the ones they love, that should be anything but a June-specific celebration; it should be year-round. And we couldn’t possibly honor these millions of people who identify as LGBTQ, pansexual, asexual, intersex, nonbinary, polyamorous, or genderqueer without acknowledging how they got here — and how they are continuing to build their own families.
Birth isn’t one of those topics that easily gets a crowd going. Bring up vernix or contractions at a party, and you can practically feel a wave of nausea pass through the room. But birth — the literal blood, sweat, tears, and, yes, contractions — is one of the most incredible experiences that deserves our reverence and awe. It also deserves to be portrayed accurately. Raw, chaotic, painful, joyful, beautiful, and rich in diversity.
Too often, images depicting childbirth (yes, they exist outside of textbooks, but they’re still rare), feature predominantly cis-hetero couples. That’s not only misleading; it’s also a missed opportunity to showcase the resilience, tenderness, and love shared by LGBTQ+ parents and their newborn children. And at this moment, as the world grapples with a global pandemic and the extraordinary task of dismantling centuries of systemic racism and discrimination (including against Black and Brown LGBTQ+ folx), these peeks at new life are necessary reminders that love prevails and that change is possible. Ahead, we’ve gathered just a sampling of that joy captured by childbirth photographers from all over the country.
Please note: The following images show childbirth in all of it’s beautiful, messy glory. If you are uncomfortable seeing all parts of the female anatomy, do not click through.
A version of this story was originally published in June 2020.
Tears of Joy
“This was one of the more profound moments in my career,” LGBTQ+ photographer Jamie Thrower of Studio XIII Photography tells SheKnows. “Being able to be present for this home water birth with two incredible mamas was such a beautiful experience. The LGBTQ community and the Black community don’t have enough representation in the birthing world, especially in photography, and I am so grateful to have had the honor of capturing the amazing experience of their daughter being born.”
Two Hearts Become Three
The excitement in the room must have been buzzing, but for a moment, it’s as if time stood still for this new family of three.
Vernix Halo
The vernix. The outstretched hand. That first skin-to-skin moment the family will never forget.
Sweet Embrace
The moments of labor are wrought with emotions. Fear, excitement, elation, and, more than likely, impatience. This photo from Alyssa Leon of Cherry Blossom Doula Services, LLC, catches a couple taking a moment to savor all of the intense feelings as they prepare for their lives to change.
First Moments
All of it — the contractions, the poking and prodding from countless nurses, the dreaded ring of fire, and the awkward uterus massages — is worth it in those first few moments as a family.
Feeling Victorious
A well-deserved celebration.
Sun-Drenched Smiles
Getting into a rhythm with a newborn can be tiring and emotional. But amongst the many highs and lows, there are moments of pure bliss, like this one captured by photographer Marea Goodman, LM, CPM, of Restore Midwifery.
Swaddled and Smiling
It’s hard to believe someone so small can elicit such immense feelings of love.
Uninhibited Love
Posed photos have their value, but it’s these — the candid, raw moments of new parents seemingly in disbelief of the love they feel for their newborn — that pull at our heartstrings.
Support System
Hospitals are rarely welcoming, comforting spaces, no matter how friendly the staff is. Having that special support person by your side during one of the most transformative experiences in a lifetime is invaluable.
First Feedings
We could wax on and on about the benefits of breastfeeding for parent and baby, but the looks on these new parents’ faces in this tender moment say it all.
Gleeful Anticipation
Fathers Peter and Ciarán from the United Kingdom chose a gestational surrogate in the United States to make their dreams of starting a family become a reality. In this remarkable photo by Dusti Smith Stoneman, lead photographer and owner of The Art of Birth, they anxiously await the birth of their son.
A Grand Entrance
Newborn Aidan makes his arrival into the world surrounded by his family and vast support team.
Together At Last
Peter and Cairán share a kiss as they relish the first moments as new parents.
Pushing Through Pain
A snapshot doesn’t always capture the pain or the waiting and the longing. But it can provide families with a reminder of their love and strength, as is depicted in this sun-filled moment captured by Jennifer Mason Photography.
“It was a long labor, but they got through each contraction together,” photographer Jennifer Mason tells SheKnows.
Got Your Back
There is no one way to move through labor. Having the freedom to try new positions and share close contact with a partner, as photographer and doula Rebecca Shelton captures here, can be empowering.
In Awe
A new life, a new perspective, and a view that never gets old.
Blissful Bonding
This couple had an “extremely fast labor and birth,” Jennifer Mason tells SheKnows. But in this moment, as they admired their new baby boy, it’s as if time stood still.
Bundled Tight
Photographer Stacey Babcock captured two new fathers establishing an instant bond with their newborn as they use a syringe for a feeding.
Admiration
It’s hard to believe anyone could start out life so tiny, especially against the enormity of new parents’ love.
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