Few things are as heart-wrenching (and utterly exhausting!) as infertility. It’s a seemingly endless bombardment of desperate hope and crushing disappointment, month after month. An emotional and physical rollercoaster that literally no one asks for, yet some of us unexpectedly find ourselves on — with no guarantees as to when, or even if, it will end. Experiences you wouldn’t normally have thought twice about, from attending baby showers to hearing loved ones’ pregnancy announcements to walking past the baby items at the store, can become a painful ordeal. All you want is something that seems to happen so easily for everyone else — sometimes without even trying — but you can get everything right and still have no results. To say that infertility is “frustrating” is a massive understatement.
Modern medicine can work wonders for couples dealing with infertility, but that doesn’t mean you don’t want to do things yourself, as well, to try and help get that bun in the oven. From fun things to support your mental health through this grueling journey to technology that will help you identify and track your most fertile days, we’ve rounded up some great products for couples who are struggling to conceive (which do not include ridiculous advice like “just stop trying so hard”). Here’s hoping these might help your dream of having a baby a reality — or at least make the waiting a little bit easier to bear.
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Beli Prenatal Vitamins
A healthy baby starts from the inside, and Beli prenatal vitamins have everything moms-to-be need. But don’t let the “prenatal” part fool you — Beli vitamins are good for pre-conception all the way through pregnancy and even post-delivery support. Superstar ingredients like choline, folate, and B12 help boost egg quality and fetal development, plus a whole host of other nutritional benefits help ensure that Mom is at her best through every stage. (Psst … there’s also Beli Vitality for Men, made to boost reproductive and sperm health!)
‘Taking Charge of Your Fertility’ by Toni Weschler
Toni Weschler’s Taking Charge of Your Fertilityhas long been regarded as the book to read when you’re trying to conceive — and the 20th anniversary edition has been completely updated to include the latest in reproductive information and technology.
FertiliTea Preconception Tea
This minty tea has herbal ingredients designed to enhance your fertility. Fertility-booster or not, a nice calming cup of tea at night just sounds like a good plan.
Daysy Fertility Monitor
This fertility monitor works with your phone (it’s Bluetooth enabled and has a highly intelligent algorithm!) to pinpoint your fertile days with over 90 percent accuracy. Its green-yellow-red symbol system makes it easy to know whether or not today’s the day to try to make a baby.
IVF Planner Stickers
Timing is everything when you’re doing IVF, and the multiple steps can be overwhelming. These handy IVF calendar stickers will make sure you never miss a medication or test.
Moonstone Fertility Necklace
The perfect sentimental gift for yourself or someone else who’s trying to conceive, this simple-but-stunning necklace is made of moonstone, which is said to have both positive benefits for fertility and act as a good-luck charm.
kegg Fertility Tracker & Kegel Ball
Hear us out: a fertility tracker, but it goes in your vag. In just two minutes a day, the kegg Fertility Tracker gives you an analysis of your cervical fluid, which is the best way to determine your most fertile days. But the coolest part? If you’re not pregnant within 12 months, you get 100% of your money back!
PREMAMA Drinkable Fertility Supplement
This unflavored supplement has the nutritional benefits you need to maximize your fertility — and it mixes into your drink, so you can stay hydrated, which is key to ensuring good cervical mucus quality.
Lucky IVF Socks
These playful (and cozy!) socks can help keep your spirits high when those infertility blues try to take over. They’re especially perfect for anyone undergoing IVF.
Spermcheck At-Home Fertility Test Kit for Men
For men who are too embarrassed or too busy to go to the doctor, this FSA/FHA eligible in-home male fertility test lets you know the range of your sperm count — and it’s endorsed by the American Pregnancy Association.
Easy@Home Ovulation & Pregnancy Test Strip Kit
Make tracking your fertile days — and testing for pregnancy — a breeze with this Amazon top-rated multi-pack of 70 test strips (50 for ovulation and 20 for pregnancy).
‘Fertilized Eggs’ Mug
What better vessel to sip your fertility-blend tea from than this cute mug that VERY clearly states your intentions?
Pre-Seed Fertility-Friendly Lubricant
Pre-Seed personal lubricant mimics a woman’s natural body fluids and allows sperm to swim freely, making it a great choice for when you’re trying to conceive.
‘Infreakinfertility’ by Melanie Dale
If you or someone you love is dealing with infertility, this book is a must-read. It will make you laugh, it will make you cry — but most importantly, it will make you feel seen. “This isn’t a book about conquering infertility,” says author Melanie Dale. “This is a book about surviving it.”
Snowballs Cooling Boxers for Men
Yes, these underwear are really called “Snowballs” – but in all seriousness, keeping the testicles at a lower temperature is a scientifically-backed way to improve male fertility. Let’s just say these boxers help keep the jewels cool.
Basal Digital Thermometer
This basal thermometer can read your temperature down to the hundredth. It’s a simple way to track your morning temperature and find the days when you’re likely ovulating.
Art of the Root Healing Soy Candle
This 8-ounce candle is infused with real herbs and essential oils said to help with sadness and emotional turmoil (which infertility can bring in spades!). And hey, even if you think alternative remedies are hooey, at least you have a beautifully-scented space to think it in.
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