Many of us have complicated relationships with Father’s Day — and/or Mother’s Day, or let’s be honest, most Hallmark holidays. The notion of recognizing a specific person on a specific day can feel off-putting at best — and heteronormative and exclusionary at worst. For those of us who are lucky enough to have a father and/or partner with whom we do want to celebrate this day, Father’s Day can elicit a wide range of emotions, from nostalgia to grief to longing to just plain annoyance at the continuation of the white, male patriarchy even in 2021. Oh, and it perpetuates hetero relationships and capitalist culture, too. So, what are we celebrating again? Oh, right, dads we love! Because we do love a lot of them; just look at these celeb dads who are raising kids and teaching them to smash the aforementioned patriarchy.
After all, if there’s one type of dad we’re never shy about celebrating (and gifting) it’s the feminist dad. The dad who understands that feminism asks for nothing more or less than equal fundamental rights for all genders. The dad who isn’t threatened by strong women but is inspired by them. The dad who is intentional about raising kids in ways that empower all people and that challenge tired stereotypes. Hell yeah I’ll buy a gift for that dad.
So if you know a feminist father, read on. Our top picks for feminist Father’s Day gifts would make Rosie the Riveter (and, um, her dad) proud.
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A version of this article was originally published in May 2018.
Feminist Dad Shirt
We’ll say it again for the folks in the back. Feminist fathers are sure to love this shirt because real men raise strong women — who make their own choices.
‘Free the Tipple’ Cocktail Book
Drinkin’ dads who like their feminism mixed with falernum will go wild for this book of decidedly kickass cocktails, all inspired by amazing women. The fact that its pun-tastic title is Free the Tipplejust makes it even better in our book.
Blue Q ‘This is What a Feminist Looks Like’ Men’s Sock
Maybe he’s already got the feminist tee of his dreams. But chances are, his feet could surely use some jazzing up — and why not put your activism in every step of your day?
Feminist Mug
Or go the mug route! Bold, brazen and to-the-point, this mug will let the Pops in your life make a statement every day at breakfast.
Children’s Book Bundle
Is Dad tired of reading the same old books to his kids? Spice up the playlist with three recommendations from children’s literature specialist Written & Bound. These reads challenge gender binaries, emphasize the special bond between father and child, encourage individual expression and help dads, grandpas and father figures teach kids that boys and girls can do or be whatever they want. This bundle includes Julián Is a Mermaid by Jessica Love, Pink Is for Boys by Robb Pearlman and Eda Kaban and Made for Me by Zack Bush and Gregorio De Lauretis. The whole family will be enlightened and empowered.
Handmade Apron
A cooking man’s place is in the kitchen, right? Show him how much you support his culinary prowess by stepping up his wardrobe with this classic apron from Hedley & Bennett.
Little Feminist Puzzle
Dad will enjoy introducing the whole family to badass revolutionaries while putting together this 500-piece puzzle from Mudpuppy with his kids or grandkids. Family puzzle nights are what quarantine is for, right?
‘Feminism Is for Everybody’ Book
Empower Dad’s feminist zeal with the ultimate coffee table primer, Feminism Is for Everybody by Bell Hooks. Because woke dads love increasing their knowledge on how to end sexism, sexual exploitation and oppression.
Donation in Honor of Dad to the Lower East Side Girls Club
Is there any better way to show your true understanding of feminism than to donate to a nonprofit whose mission is to smash ceilings and create new possibilities for girls and women? Make a Father’s Day donation in honor of Dad to the Lower East Side Girls Club. The club is working to break the cycle of poverty by bringing a world of opportunities free of cost to girls who need help the most.
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